Well, watching a woman please another woman is up there too I guess. In today’s world of fast food, debit cards, it isn’t so surprising that a woman enjoys pleasing herself. This is a fast high tech world. Woman are working as many hours as men these days. They don’t have the time to go out and search for the guy who will lay them once and ruin their lives. There are many reasons why a woman would want to masturbate. Just like there are many reasons why you masturbate. It doesn’t take much thought to figure it out. Most men don’t understand the female body.

The clitoris has to be stimulated for maximum pleasure. The clitoris is much like the head of a penis. Could you imagine having sex with only your shaft? That wouldn’t make for very enjoyable sex.

A few hundred years ago it was common for a woman who had a strong need to go to a doctor and have him masturbate her. This was done because it was their belief that a horny woman could lead to bad things. It wasn’t healthy to have sex more than once per week.

These doctors usually spent up to 50% of their time masturbating women. That had to be some job. Could you imagine getting paid to masturbate women? I would work overtime every chance I got.

This shows something bigger though. It shows that most men don’t know how to please a woman. I’m not saying that sex once a week is enough, but I think you know what I am saying. If you lived back in this era and your woman had to go to the doctor to have an orgasm, you are doing something wrong.

Being that most men can’t please a woman, a vibrator isn’t a bad choice. Actually their doctor will tell them to use a vibrator. It is good because they can control the orgasm better with one. This comes in ‘handy’ if your partner can’t please you.

Some women don’t want the hassle of finding a mate. They use sex toys in the same way that men use escorts. They figure that it isn’t worth their time to find a mate, so why bother? The sex toy is easier and quicker than what a man can do. They can make themselves have an orgasm in half the time a man can give them one.

Another aspect is that they don’t want the risk of disease. This might be more prevalent than you might think. Regardless of how good the sex is, it isn’t worth dying over. This is a valid reason why any man or woman would masturbate. No one wants to run to their grave. Most prefer to waltz.

Some women don’t want the risk of having a baby. With all the asshole men who don’t take care of their children, I don’t blame them one bit for this one. In today’s world, it is hard enough to make a living for yourself, let alone several mouths to feed. Masturbation helps take away any risk of this and she still gets to enjoy a great orgasm.

One woman told me that a vibrator is everything a man isn’t. A vibrator is always ready to go. No need to wait for it to get an erection. It won’t leave the house dirty and want you to clean up after it. It won’t cheat on you. It won’t expect after you are done to make it something to eat. While I had a good chuckle at what she had to say, it is the truth.

Here are three things that men fear about vibrators.

-Female masturbation is wrong. I don’t understand how men feel this way, but they do. They jack off, but it is wrong for their women to do so.

-She will become addicted to it. Men fear the introduction of anything other than their penis when it comes to the bedroom. Don’t fear the vibrator, love it. Enjoy watching her orgasm like there is no tomorrow.

-She will have no need for a real penis. This happens, but not as much as men fear. Nothing will replace the touch of another human being. Unless their vibrators can cuddle them after they are done, it won’t replace you.

Understanding that women have sexual needs is important like understanding you have sexual needs. There is no need to run from it. A horny woman isn’t a slut, but just a horny woman. If you have a woman who is horny all the time, don’t get bent out of shape. Most men would love to have a woman like yours.

There is another aspect to this discussion. Sometimes we just want to relax and enjoy the pleasure of an orgasm alone. There is nothing wrong with this. Sometimes we just need time to relax and be alone. This is a great way to get the stresses of the day off of our shoulders and relax.

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This one is a delightful kind of massage that always ends with a good, strong orgasm and a cool, relaxed mood, leaving you refreshed and relaxed. The purpose of this massage is to achieve and maintain a high state of sexual arousal for as long as possible before letting things follow their course and bringing the show to a successful conclusion. Men who suffer from premature ejaculation can really benefit from erotic massages because it can get them used to maintaining a certain level of arousal without ejaculating.

Others may choose to use this massage as foreplay or as a method for enhancing the mood and increasing the erotic awareness of both lovers. For this type of massage you may want to get some CDs that are less on the romantic side and more of the stimulating variety; I’m talking about something closer to Billie Myers than to the Best Chill-Out Compilation: Volume 4 or whatever. Make liberal use of scented massage oil and make sure it’s a really spicy brand, not something suited for relaxation.

As always, don’t rush in and start with the genitals. Take your time and give a good all around massage before focusing on the pelvic muscles. Massage these muscles into a welcome state of relaxation that will allow your lover to achieve arousal and yet stay relaxed for a long time. Whisper into her ear how much you want her and how sexy she looks. Complete the massage by moving to the most important parts of the body. Again, don’t rush; if you’ve been taking things slowly thus far, don’t spoil the mood now. Do a good job and remember that a prolonged and strong orgasm is better than a three-second rush to the head. Save the rush for spontaneous sex in the park.

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With the basic questions regarding what erogenous zones are out of the way, we can move on to a detailed discussion about the exact location of these zones. From the most obvious and down to the really mysterious ones, we are going to identify all erogenous zones and provide some tips on how to use them. The female body is a precious work of biological engineering and the curiosity of men is never satisfied as to what drives women crazy with desire.

The male body is much simpler in this regard, although it does have its hidden pleasure spots. Pretty much anybody knows how to turn a man on and which are the exact places where men like to be touched, caressed or stroked. Women, however, are different in this aspect. Their bodies feature a bigger number of erogenous zones which the skilled lover can use to make them touch the sky and beg for more.

Finding and stimulating these zones can prove to be simple and complicated at the same time. It’s really simple because anyone can read an article such as this one and learn all there is to learn from a text before moving on to hands-on experience. But it’s also complicated because it takes practice to understand how to use them. Not all women respond to stimulation in the same way and a man must think on his feet to spot which zones work for the woman in question and to change the plan of attack on the fly.

Before we start discussing the zones themselves there’s one thing we should clear up. Contrary to the ideas cherished by some men, erogenous zones are just one of the tools that accomplished or simply adventurous lovers use to increase the passion and pleasure of their ladies. They are not some sort of magic buttons that, once touched, can turn a woman into a sex-crazed creature, eyes shining with lust. They cannot be used to avoid the approach and courtship stages of any relation (one night stands included). So, guys, you’re not off the hook. You must still summon the courage to make the approach and prove your worth at the courtship game.

Much to everybody’s surprise, the biggest concentration of female erogenous zones is not found on the upper body, but, of all places, the feet. Starting with the soles and toes, which can be gently massaged or licked, and moving up to the delightfully sensitive skin of the ankles and the thighs, the feet are one of the sensual hotspots for the knowledgeable lover. Assuming that the lady in question has perfect hygiene, you can caress, lick and kiss as much as you please and if you’re really good, she will love you for it. The skin behind the knees is also a very sensitive location full of nerve endings just waiting to send waves of pleasure to the brain.

The head is the second area where erogenous zones congregate. The lips (also known as first base by many men out there) are, naturally, a very sensitive spot. Then there’s the nape of the neck, the perfect place to plant your kisses and watch passion grow. And while you’re here, you might wish to whisper sweet nothings in her ears and to bite on them lightly. This will show you’re a really good lover.

I don’t have to tell you that the buttocks are one of the erogenous hot spots of the body. Most women love to be touched there and some actually enjoy a light spanking. And, yes, I know that all you guys are dying to squeeze and caress every round and firm pair of buttocks on sight. A shapely ass is a gift from heaven. And if her hands grab your head while she begs for more, take your time to nuzzle her wrists. Bite her lightly and tell her you’re a vampire out for blood and passion.

The breasts are a time-tested erogenous zone and the favorite fondling spot of many men, but you have to be careful about them. Fact is that every woman has erogenous preferences and while men are dying to play with their breasts, some women may not be aroused by this. Women may also be turned off by poor lovers who give the impression that the only things that interest them in a woman is to get as quickly as possible to the breasts and vagina.

And we’ve saved the best for the last: the biggest erogenous zone of the body. The clitoris, vulva, perineum and anus together make up what is probably the biggest hot spot for erotic sensations. This is where you can let your fingers and lips play as much as you like, if the lady has no objections. Get to know this area well because it can be the gate to sex heaven and a man who really knows how to play down there is worth his weight in gold.

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Curiosity, information, learning and experience are the best tools for perfecting your skills as a lover who can drive ladies wild. Still, these tools can only take you so far if you don’t try to acquire more knowledge by exploration and observation. It’s pretty strange to think about it, especially with all the porn floating around the Internet, but a lot of men have never taken a good look at a woman’s vagina. Never! All they’ve ever seen was a flash of pink among the pubic hairs. Small wonder that some men are clueless when it comes to finding a woman’s clitoris and know next to nothing about the erogenous zones.

To be fair, some men are indeed exceedingly shy. They feel lucky enough when they’re able to convince a lady to go to bed with them and are not in the mood for exploration and experimentation. Moreover, others think (and with good reason, too, as far as I know) that women might not share their curiosity, or may even take an attempt to expand one’s experience as proof of weirdness or inexperience (“Haven’t you seen a pussy before?” – can you answer “No” to such a question?). It takes a smooth talker to get out of this kind of situation and shy men are not known for being smooth talkers.

Then there’s the “I’m not going down there! It’s disgusting!” crowd. Guys, if you expect oral sex from your ladies, it’s only fair to bite the bullet and reciprocate. Besides, you shouldn’t judge the experience before you actually try it. Many men thought they were only going to do it out of fairness and were very surprised to find that it wasn’t half as bad as it had seemed. If your lady is careful about her hygiene and if you can keep an open mind about it, close-up exploration of your lady’s private parts may prove to be very good fun indeed.

Still other men are simply not interested in getting a good look. That’s their opinion and we should respect it even if many of us can’t agree with it. Others are really curious, but they think that getting on all fours and doing this is beneath them. It’s amazing that men would rather rely on rumors, hearsay and myths or simply expect information to fall into their laps. The “If I have to do all the work, then it’s not worth it” approach is not exactly the best way for those who want to sharpen their bedroom skills.

Whether lying in bed in order to share an intimate moment of peace or to get ready for a hot session of sex, bring the conversation around to masturbation. If the lady is doing it and not shy to talk about her solitary practices, then ask her to show you what she’s doing. Chances are she’s focusing on the clitoris and so you’ll get a good look not only at the pleasure center itself, but also at the proper stimulation technique. But remember to be gentle about this topic. If the lady is not inclined to share the details with you or is not into masturbation, change the topic.

Your main targets in that area are the clitoris and the perineum. These are the hidden erogenous zones that cannot be easily accessed, but which are very important to a student of the erotic arts. The clitoris is a highly sensitive area, which is responsible for most female orgasms because, unlike the penis, the clitoris has no other function except to give pleasure. Vaginal orgasms are significantly less common than clitoral orgasms and, for many women, not nearly as good. One trick that you may be able to use to your advantage, if you can pull it off, is to have the woman give you a guided tour of her private parts. You’d be amazed at what people are willing to discuss with enough coaxing.

If you have to find your own way around, then here’s the layout. The clitoris is located directly above the junction of the two inner lips (labia minora). If you use your fingers to gently separate the lips (you will want to keep your fingernails cut very short), the little rosebud or its hood should become apparent. The clitoris is either fully or partially covered by a hood; this aspect different from one woman to another. You can use your fingers or lips on the clitoris, but be very gentle. If the woman says the sensation is too intense to bear, pull back and don’t argue about it.

The perineum is an area you are most likely to have to learn about on your own. It is located between the lower junction of the labia minora and the anus. This area is also highly sensitive and, along with the anus, can be stimulated in order to obtain a pleasure response. And the response is not limited to women; men also enjoy a finger pressing on their perineum, especially during ejaculation. It is known to enhance pleasure so feel free to experiment with this part of your body.

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A night out with the boys until the small hours of the morning, a party with the friends, a nice romp in the hay with a girl. The usual companions to these popular pastimes are alcohol and tobacco. Indeed, the very idea of party or night out is inextricably linked with alcohol consumption, despite the fact that smoking is not that popular anymore, not to mention somewhat illegal in public places and pubs in several countries.

However, while drinks and smokes make the party infinitely better, ending the party in a bed with someone l becomes a bit of a problem. It is a well-known fact that alcohol and sex don’t mix well. True, a glass or two can be relaxing and even arousing, but a whole bottle of hard liquor is the safest way to a limp noodle. Some young people can actually pour a lot of alcohol down their throats without missing out on bedroom performance, but heavy drinking means impotence sooner or later.

Smoking is just as bad for your sex life as alcohol. Although you will still be able to get it up and perform in bed, your lungs and heart will not be able to keep up with the increased effort. Pretty soon you’ll find yourself wheezing and forced to assume a more passive role in order to save your strength. And this even before considering the negative effect smoking has on fertility in both men and women.

After sex cigarettes are a nice touch to the afterglow of a shared orgasm, but various studies showed that 40 percent of smokers are impotent. Smoking increases the risk of impotence by some 50 percent for men in their 30s and 40s. This means that many men who would otherwise be perfectly healthy are no impotent simply because they liked to smoke. It sounds like a bitter tradeoff.

The conclusion is that neither drinking, nor smoking are good for sex, which means a choice is waiting down the road for you. Have fun, but stay safe!

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